Friday, October 17, 2008

Can you be really good friends with your EX?

Can U be really good frenz with ur EX?!

FROM LOVERS to FRIENDS

in many relationships that don't end in marriage (well actually even then), there usually is a time when you have to say "hasta la vista baby." the two of you have shared memories together that when you look back upon, you will either laugh or cry. but whatever that memory might be, once a relationship ends, it's time to say "thanks" or "no thanks" for everything and move on.
but somewhere along the line, there's always the "let's remain friends" compromise to many breakups. it's the much gentler way of saying, "hey, you're not that bad. it's not you. it's me. but look, i still want to be friends with you." *smile* the question that my friends and i discuss a lot is:

can you be really good friends with your ex?

ok. let's face it. whenever there's a breakup, it's usually never mutual. usually one person is the one that causes or initiates the breakup and is labeled "heartbreaker", while the other person is left hurting and dwelling on the breakup for weeks on end. ok. i admit. even the heartbreaker could hurt too, but usually the one who initiated the breakup moves on faster than the one who didn't.(rite?!)
after having meditated and burned incense on this question, my friends and i have come to the conclusion that NO, it's very rare for many people to become truly good friends with their ex's.
take me for example. although my ex and i agreed that we would be good friends, we're really not. sure, i get a greeting on my birthday or whenever there is a function about me and i just greeted her on her birthday, but those are about the only times we actually communicates to each other. and i actually prefer it this way. i'm sure she and her somebody now does too.
However, i have a friend whose become best friends with his EX instead.(WOW!) Yes. it's true. it can be done. but, when your ex is your best friend and you tell your best friend things about your current relationship, hmm, you could land yourself in a heap of mess.
so why can't ex's remain friends?
here's some reasons i've read on why the can't:
there's always a heartbreaker and the heartbreakee. same as mentioned above.
bitterness comes into play. an ex can pretend to be a friend, but deep down they'd rather see you and your current partner dead (jk).
jealousy. seriously - who really likes seeing their ex being lovey dovey with someone else anyway?
of course, u don't really have to share ur stuff with ur best friend(EX). Cause you may understand her more since last time?! But, there always a BETRAYAL(internal affair) would just betray you k?
CAN YOU BE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX?
you guys tell me.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Back!

Yes!
Yeah!
I'm back to my blogger life's style...
Sorry for not updating for the past 2 months.
I was so busy with a lot of things and eventually many things happen on that time that make me don't have the mood to update it.

Anyways, I'm back to my college life, new sem new life.
I'm just trying to adjusting my life back to here again without worries...
As for the past few months, I live in a life that full of worries, worried about many things almost every minutes, every hour, everyday...Somehow that kind of fucking life i should leave it away...
That's not my style, why should i worried so much...
Even my room mate said i change a lot...

Last sem its a good sem where i met a lot of FuBu...
We get along in class, we enjoy outside, we made laughter in lecture hall,
We are Group C!
No matter what, we will stick together team! We are all FuBu...

more to be updates after this...
To be continue...

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

你是我最深爱的人

爱上了一个人,

能够为她牺牲,

就算付出了生命,

我甘心为了你.

两个人在一起,

分享爱的命运,

永远都不会忘记,

我们生活点滴.

你是我最深爱的女人...

你有最美丽的嘴唇,

你拥有最动人的眼神,

你带给我幸福和快乐,

我是你最深爱的男人...

我的爱绝对是永恒,

做什么都值得...

爱上了一个人()...

Sunday, June 22, 2008

What a GREAT 20th Birthday...

Yeah!
Big Boy d...
The smells of FREEEEEDDDOOOOOMMM is coming soon...
Haha, been thinking too much...
Hell Yeah!
Everybody is waiting for their 21st to come and so do I too...

Hmm...
its kinda happy...
I get a lot of wishes from everybody, my family, my cousinz, my frenz, my hostels mates, my EX-roomates and a lot of them...
Especially her, got her very first wishes...
So touch and happy...
Thanks to her...

First of all, thanks to 'dee kor', 'dee kor tiun', Szi Szi jie jie, Szi Yuen kor kor, Ah Tom, JWeen kor kor and Tho Wei kor kor...
Thanks for helping me celebrating and make my birthday so wonderful.

My 20th Birthday Cake bought by them.

Having simple and nice dinner and 'dee kor' house.
After that around 10 something, meet up JWeen and have supper at Taipan...
Haha, I'm non-stop eating LOL...Eat, eat, eat, and eat was my job for the whole night.
Anyways, thanks to all u guys...
Really appreciate, and felt so touching and warm...

Thank You!
Arigato!

Happy Birthday

Happy Birthday to me!
Happy Birthday to me!
Happy Birthday to me!!!!!


Happy Birthday to me!!!!!!!

Happy 20th Birthday LOL!!!

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Unknown

Hmm...
Left 4 more days to go...
20th Birthday coming soon...
Happy?
Sad?
Gloomy?
Moody?

I don't know..don't even know what my feels sense now...
Emm... I think most probably will still be the same as last year?!
Haha...
Just don't know why?
Surprise?!
Haha...Don't even dare to think of it...


Anyways, just hope for the best la...
Happy 20th Birthday, Birthday Boy!!!
Lets hope it will be a wonderful birthday!!!

Thursday, June 12, 2008

My very first meal from my sweet heart


Hamburger originated from CHINA



See?! Got "Bak Chui" inside...

Hmm, this mum mum is not familiar for Malaccan i think so...
Hehe...
Anyways, my very first meal or mum mum from my LOVE one...
She went to Pasar Malam and get me this for dinner dessert...
So love it...
Haha...
Nice LOL!!

Thanks babe, really appreciate it a lot...
Thanks ya...
For those TARCians, go to Seri Rampai Pasar Malam...and get this CHINA Hamburger...
Taste like heaven LOL...

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Reunion of [Ex-BFs]

Last night was a great night for me or i should say for all of us(Ex-BFs)members.
09/06/08-Reunion day for all of us.
10:00p.m.
AE studio

We jammed for one hour,all of us was quite enjoying during that night.
We played our old songs, laugh to each other, criticize this and that...actually we are just playing prank on each other.

By then i should say i'm the one enjoying and sing those song with my emo style.
We played [Innocent Romance] for almost 4 times(including one acoustic style), [Would it satisfy?],
[Second Dance], Relaku pujuk, 你知道我在等你吗, and DP6's songs...

Thanks to MAX, BEN, EZRA, and WEE HAN for making that night so WONDERFUL...
Thanks a lot,
Hope we still can jam some other time...

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Smile and Smile, There's nothing i can't get throught it...

笑一笑,没什么事情大不了- a phrase by 小乌龟。

Yeah, right!
Smile and smile, there nothing I can't solve it and get throught it...

By the way,
There are something which i don't understand and don't get it.
Hmm, I don't feel like speak it out here, but just to drop by and say it out.

Someone, please hold up my hands and save me from here...
I'm suffering!!!
So please...
Show me ur hand...

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Untitled

Hmm...
Now its already 2:30a.m in the morning,
I got nothing to do but to MISS YOU...

Monday, April 28, 2008

Not tired of You...

Hmm...
Today being Emo again...
Just dunno why mood change all of the sudden,
Stress!
Formula is all i got in my brain...
But all for while, my brain do keep on missing her...
Didn't met her for the whole week d, and I'm kinda missing her...
Why why why?!
Hmm, being too emo for all this while... That's why went to my blog to shout out...

Haih, listen to so many songs this few days...
Emotional songs is still my favourite. Anyways, i just found out this 2 new chinese songs.
That is 擦肩而过 by 李圣 and 洋葱 by 杨宗纬.
Its just nice too express my feeling for the moment, just duno why that i keep repeating this 2 songs only...
Besides that,你知道我在等你吗 is also another songs that was playing in my current playlist...
I'm just being too emo nowadays...
Missing her too much, shout out doesn't work...
wanted to call her but she seems to be so tired nowadays...
Msg halfway then no reply, i knew she's tired...
That's why i dun dare to disturb her at night...

Haih,
I gotta bear for it,
Left 2 days more that I'll be having holiday, by that time i think i can meet up her more d...
U can do it simple_HANZ, just bear with 36 hours more....You'll be back to ur home sweet home to meet up family members and ur babe PIG PIG...

Babe, i maybe emotional today and thanks for being such understanding to me oo...
Thanks a lot, really appreciate it a lot...

Gotta go now,
Prepare for the last battle...
Wish me luck then...

Monday, April 21, 2008

Fly Away From Here

Fly Away From Here - Aerosmith

I found out this songs is nice and the lyrics is quite meaningful...
Love this songs so much,
It talks about a couple which like to leave the sad place and went far far away from there together...

Gotta find a way
Yeah, I can't wait another day
And nothin' gonna change
If we stay around here
Gotta do what it takes
Cause all in our hands
We all make mistakes, yeah
But it's never to late to start again
Take another breath
And say another prayer

Then fly away from here
Anywhere
Yeah, I don't care
We'll just fly away from here
Our hopes and dreams are out there somewhere
Won't let time pass us by
We'll just fly

If this life
Isn't hard enough
It ain't no nevermind
You got me by your side
And anytime you want
Yeah, we can catch a train and find a better place
Yeah, cause we won't have nothin' or no one keep gettin' us down
Maybe you and I
Could pack our bags and hit the sky

Then fly away from here
Anywhere
Yeah, I don't care
We'll just fly away from here
Our hopes and dreams are out there somewhere
Won't let time pass us by
We'll just fly

Didn't you see your blue sky now
You could have a better ride now
Open your eyes
Cause no one here can better or stop us
They can try but we won't let them
No way

Maybe you and I
Could pack our bags and say goodbye

Then fly away from here
Anywhere
Honey, I don't care
We'll just fly away from here
Our hope and dreams are out there somewhere
Fly away from here
Yeah, anywhere
Honey, I don't, I don't, I don't yeah

We'll just fly...

Friday, April 18, 2008

Emo emo emo!!!

Emo!
Emo!!
Emo!!!

I'm so emo this few days,
Why huh?!
Headache, Heartache...
Just because of I MISS HER so much...

Hmm, I got a lot of nightmare nowadays...
Dreams of her, and a lot of bad bad bad dreams...
Is it I'm too stress with my studies?!
Or m I just being too emo because of her huh?!

Actually I got a lot of things to tell her...
But i dunno where to start from...
I miss her so much,
Really really miss her...
We are so near to each other by then can't even get to meet up...
Hmm, so sad, so sad, so sad...

Can someone tell me what to do huh?!
Please...
Please tell me the way...
I'm going to be crazy soon...

I MISS HER
I MISS HER SO MUCH
I GONNA MISS HER LIKE CRAZY...

Sunday, April 13, 2008

Room 1125

Room 1125...
I will remember u always...
I enjoy a lot in it...
Thanks to u bro - TAN JAY WEEN
Thanks to u for letting me staying rated 5 stars HOTEL with u for few days oo
I'm so sorry for kacau u so much LOL...

Stay 5 Stars
Eat 5 Stars
Enjoy 5 Stars
Shop 5 Stars
Watch 5 Stars(dun get wrong meaning, I meant we watch MOVIE at 5 Stars cinema)

Last weeks, I do enjoy a lot with my cousin BRO lol...
Never in my life watch Movie for twice in a week lol...
We watched 3 Kingdoms and Nim's Island...
Overall 3 Kingdoms is nice, Andy Lau is Damn YENG!!!
I LOVE ANDY LAU...

2nd day,
Went to KLCC to met up his "Brother" Ah Kay and his gf Fei Ting(leng lui),
After dinner, went to Sungei Wang for K session.
9p.m to 2 a.m.
Thanks to Brother Kay, he is having meeting the next day at Pasir Gudang but he still accompany us the whole night whole...

Overall, I'm enjoying my life as a KING LOL...
Eat enough, play enough...

By then, the most funniest things is still the TAXI...
Wanna know why?!
Going back to our hotel its like freaking near(walk also can reach la), but due to some ppl laziness...
He insist of taking TAXI back to hotel lol...
Wat the heck?!
Crazy rite?!
What to do?!
Ppl rich ma...wanna enjoy better life...
Hahaha...

RM12 mineral water.
My cousin bro keep on reminding don't drink this mineral ah...
Nobody is going to pay for it lol...
Haha...

Anyway,
Thanks to u arm tua...
I really enjoy a lot man...
Take care and see-ing u for the next outing lol...

Monday, April 7, 2008

First ever performance by DP6

First performance by DP6,

Venue: - Holiday Villa
Reason: - MMU Accouting Prom Nite...

Everything went smooth but the CROWD was SUCKS to the MAX...
Hmm...
What to do?!
We are in Malaysia...Not U.S

Malaysian are still Malaysian, cause we are FOOD LOVERS...
All we care was just about eating, no matter who you are to perform in front there...
We will just sitting down there "guai guai" to enjoy our food...

But who cares, we are there just to perform and enjoy the music we produce...
Thanks to MMU - PUI YEE for inviting us there to had a great performance...
We do rock for the crowd but they just dun appreciate it LOL....
Haha....

Need any performance by bands?!
Do find me...contact my band...
We will try our best to perform for u...

DP6 ROCKS!!! But i still in love with my old band - [Ex-Boyfriends]

Saturday, April 5, 2008

Performance By DP6 (6 Days Philosophy)

Hell Yeah!!!

We are going to rock in Holiday Villa Tonight!!!

We are going to rock for MMU-ians from Cyber Jaya lol...

Hope so It will be a great performance from all of Us...

Nervous!
Nervous!
Nervous!!!!

DP6 Rocks!!!

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Running out if TIME and TIRED of IT !!!

Tired!
Tired! Tired!
Tired! Tired! Tired!
I'm Freaking Tired!

Time!
Time! Time!
Time! Time! Time!
I'm running out of Time!

I'm so tired of it...
I'm sickening with it...
What i got nowadays was just pressure, I don't seems to be enjoying anymore
I started to hate myself why i got myself involve into this...
What i want its just to enjoy myself...
I don't wanna any fame, luxuries, or anything...

Can you guys please put yourself in my situation?!
Do you know how hard to do all those stuff u guys asked huh?!
If u can find any better ppl than me... Please, just replace me...
I don't mind anymore...
It seems like nowadays you guys are going after fame...
We are no longer at the same lane anymore...
No more enjoying music as we said last time.
No more...

Dear Kuan Yin Ma,
Please give me strength to recover myself soon...
I really can't take it anymore...
So suffering now...
Feel like dying...

Dear Ah Mak,
Mak ah, Tolong-tolong boh bi wa ah boy ah...
Wa si lu lai lu pai si(naughty)liao ah...
Please forgive me for what I've done k?!

Hey Babe,
Thanks!
Thanks for all this while...
I really appreciate for what you had done towards me...
Thanks for being right by myside when i need you the most...
Love ya always my dear...
Love You...

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Changes,Changes,CHANGES!!!

Haih, Its been almost more than one month that I didn't manage to update my blog...
My cousin TAN JAY SERN screw me up for not updating my blog for the whole month...

Well, I just got back from Jamming just to get evaluation by MMU Prom Nite Program Master...
Hmm, I got my new band - 6 Days Philosophy
For u guys latest info, we are just changing our drummer from MAX KHOO to RICHARD CHIN...
Don't worry MAX, no matter how, You are still Ex-Boyfriends DRUMMER k?

This few weeks its been so tiring for me...
I got Taekwon-do and Band to practice...

On the 29th and 30th of this month(Saturday and Sunday), there will be my Taekwon-do competition in Subang, Summit Parade.
There are no reserve for my team, 5 of us in the team and we gotta co-op to each other to get better performance...
Oh god, please let me have last GOLD medal before I gotta proceed to my 3rd dan black belt.

Besides that, nowadays i was so busy with band practice too...
Because we are being invited to perform for MMU(Cyber Jaya) Prom Nite on the 2nd of April...
It will be a very great performance by us - 6 Days Philosophy...
I'm just an Emo Rockstar

That's all for now...
Will keep updating from now...
Bye!!!!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Random Posting




Its been a while since i'm on Holiday....
I did not update my blog...

Nothing to share about as I'm in a Lame Chinese New Year...
By then, i got my very "somebody" to spent with me for my holiday...
Without her...
I think my life would be miserable...
Thank babe...I'll Love You with all my Life....

Always remember this - I don't wanna miss a thing ( A theme song for the both of us k?)

Lets cut things short...
On Valentine's Day...
She's working...and I'm on my freaking lame holiday, so i plan to get her a surprise and some present...
Hmm...things went smoothly but her dad ask her to go home for dinner?! What to do?!
No choice lo...let her back home la...

Before she went back home, she instead of coming to my place..
Hmm Hmm...excuses as she wants to pass me something la...
without my expectation... She got me Valentine's Day Present...
Oh My God!!!
Pictures are worth more than thousand words...
View From Top
This is what i got...

She got me some choc's, sweets, and lollipops...
Hmm...
Thanks babe...
I feel so shy for my present for u oo...
Feel guilty eh...
I'll make better want for u k?
Hugs and lots of love for ya...

Monday, January 14, 2008

Can U be really Good friends with ur EX?!

FROM LOVERS to FRIENDS

in many relationships that don't end in marriage (well actually even then), there usually is a time when you have to say "hasta la vista baby." the two of you have shared memories together that when you look back upon, you will either laugh or cry. but whatever that memory might be, once a relationship ends, it's time to say "thanks" or "no thanks" for everything and move on.

but somewhere along the line, there's always the "let's remain friends" compromise to many breakups. it's the much gentler way of saying, "hey, you're not that bad. it's not you. it's me. but look, i still want to be friends with you." *smile* the question that my friends and i discuss a lot is:

can you be really good friends with your ex?

ok. let's face it. whenever there's a breakup, it's usually never mutual. usually one person is the one that causes or initiates the breakup and is labeled "heartbreaker", while the other person is left hurting and dwelling on the breakup for weeks on end. ok. i admit. even the heartbreaker could hurt too, but usually the one who initiated the breakup moves on faster than the one who didn't.(rite?!)

after having meditated and burned incense on this question, my friends and i have come to the conclusion that NO, it's very rare for many people to become truly good friends with their ex's.

take me for example. although my ex and i agreed that we would be good friends, we're really not. sure, i get a greeting on my birthday or whenever there is a function about me and i just greeted her on her birthday, but those are about the only times we actually communicates to each other. and i actually prefer it this way. i'm sure she and her somebody now does too.

However, i have a friend whose become best friends with his EX instead.(WOW!) Yes. it's true. it can be done. but, when your ex is your best friend and you tell your best friend things about your current relationship, hmm, you could land yourself in a heap of mess.

so why can't ex's remain friends?

here's some reasons i've read on why the can't:

  • there's always a heartbreaker and the heartbreakee. same as mentioned above.
  • bitterness comes into play. an ex can pretend to be a friend, but deep down they'd rather see you and your current partner dead (jk).
  • jealousy. seriously - who really likes seeing their ex being lovey dovey with someone else anyway?
  • of course, u don't really have to share ur stuff with ur best friend(EX). Cause you may understand her more since last time?! But, there always a BETRAYAL(internal affair) would just betray you k?

CAN YOU BE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX?

you guys tell me.

Sunday, January 13, 2008

random post

My Precious

Yeah!!!
U gonna be my precious soon.. soon, soon,
Thanks to "U"...

Friday, January 11, 2008

コブクロ = Kobukuro

コブクロ(Kobukuro)
Yeah!
I'm on my way to spread the love of Kobukuro on my blog...
I hardly get to know that Malaysians get to know them althought they are an old Japanese pop band. Both of them are great, they really produce great songs lol...
I just don't know why being get hooked by their songs all these days...


Kobukuro : Kuroda(left) n Kubochi

p/s : I'll like to intro you guys with "願いの詩 / 太陽( Poem of Wish / The Sun)" and "風(The Wind)" than the well known hitz - YELL ~エール~ / Bell

Monday, January 7, 2008

"Mommy" got her new HAIRSTYLE...


Before "mommy" got "her" haircut...

see?
saw?
saw the difference?!
haha...

Latest look of "mommy"...
70's look vs Bad Boy looks
Hey, "Mommy" SyaSya...
Did u saw it?!
The post that u wanted so much...
Good leh?
I promote u inside my blog...haha...
Anyways...good luck and all the best for the shooting that u mention to me that day...70's look huh?!(wahahaha)

Lots of love,
xiu_hanz

Resolution of 2008...

Just dunno why?
Feel like posting something inside here...
After being counseling by my both parents, I started realize that I really enjoyed a lot for the past few sems... I did not really do what i had done for the 1st year 1 sem... Back to home still notes in my hand(What a nerd?! So kia-su)

I admit that I become more wild once i get out of my sweet home...
Piercing,(although I know that my parents won't allow me to do)but I still insist of getting one...
Tattoo, plan to do 1 but... Advice by someone:"You'll regret after u get it...I won't bluff u want...Can you see it on my body?! I regret of having it...so try not to do it k?!"

1. Good girls gone bad(Rihanna) Bad boys gone good(Xiu Han) I want to become a better man(On every terms)
2. Cut down entertainment, less yum cha, night outing, loitering, and...
3. Study study study... (Don't forget the purpose of coming to college)
4. I want to be more quiet...damn noisy nowadays...
5. Financial - save up money, no more spending on those unnecessary things...
6. Filial - Be more obedient towards parents, be a good boy...
7. Slim down(too fat d) Gotta work out and cut down my meal nowadays...

By here, I wanna apologize to my parents first of all, for making them so worried about me, my future and everything la... I'm sorry dad and mom...so sorry... I'm just to WILD and become more BAD all this days...
Don't worry, I promise that I can change, I can change, I can change... change to be a better person...

SORRY for what i had done all this while k?
So SORRY...
With lots of LOVE,
AH HAN...

Sunday, January 6, 2008

Brand New Year... Brand New Hope...

The fresh air of 2008...
Can u feel it?!

Brand New Year, Brand New Me...
Just hope that year ahead, my luck and life would be better...
Kuan Yin Ma must really boh bi me, my family, friends, band members, "BRAdders" and sisters la...

UNPLUGGED has over, and my FINALS are nearer...
Stress!
Stress!
Stress!
Start having more stress after being pressure by my band leader - Wee Han,

Haih, after this have to pick up my Vocal class to improve my vocals so that i can make it better for my future singing...

Please, somebody please, somebody please help me...
I'm dying soon...can anybody please held a hand on me...Please...

"Ah Ma(Grandma), please boh bi me, Ah Han Boy getting a better future..."
Ah ma, I really wanna try my luck on my singing future... can u please boh bi me?! Boh bi me "Shun Shun Li Li, Ping Ping An An"
Kam Xia(Thank You)

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Happy New Year!!!

Goodbye 2007
and let us say hi to 2008

Happy New Year!!!
Brand New Year, Brand New Hope...
Haha....

Just drop by to say Happy New Year to everybody....